I choose you, Charmander!*

I (Matt) used to love playing the original PokĆ©mon on the Game Boy (ā€œPokĆ©mon! Gotta catch ā€˜em all!ā€). If I knew how many hours I’d spent playing the games, catching, training and battling the PokĆ©mon…actually I don’t want to think about that too hard! I’m pretty sure they are why I need to wear glasses today…

Anyway, I had LOTS of fun in that world. And for what it’s worth I did ā€˜catch ā€˜em all’…well, the original 150 at least.

Charmander, the cute fire lizard, is one PokĆ©mon I often used. One of the moves that he learns early on is ā€˜Ember’,  and it’s his earliest fire attack. It’s not a huge, spectacular flame, but a small and useful spark of fire that he uses to make a real difference.

We, as Embers, exist to rekindle the fire of missional discipleship across the UK. Like Charmander’s Ember move, we’re not trying to create a wildfire overnight. We’re helping churches and everyday Christians rediscover the small, faithful practices that keep the fire of following Jesus burning, because a small ember can start or even restart a fire. Though they are small, they can be mighty.

Charmander’s Ember isn’t the biggest attack…but it sure gets the fire started!

That’s what we’re about with our training: rekindling missional discipleship across the UK, helping everyday Christians follow Jesus and live on mission with his Spirit every day. Small sparks can mean rekindled faith, and a church ā€˜on fire’ for Jesus.

*Ash Ketchum (in the PokĆ©mon cartoon) often says ā€œI choose youā€ to his PokĆ©mon. In the Bible, in John 15:16, Jesus says to his disciples ā€œYou did not choose me, but I chose youā€ā€¦ Like Ash, Jesus has chosen whom he wants – and he wants YOU, because he loves you. Jesus has taken the first step in initiating a relationship with us. How will you respond today?

Long time no see…

I have a friend who cannot do something if you ask her to. It’s got a fancy name and everything…Pathological Demand Avoidance or PDA for short. It’s not her being difficult…it is a behaviour that stems from a physiological stress response. But, if you put it on a rota and stick it on the fridge she is happy to get on with the task! The brain is a wonderful and complex thing.Ā 

I am happy to do something if you ask me…I will dive in and get into the nitty-gritty of it, I’ll look at it from all angles and work out the best way to do it and get on with it. I will do 95% of the work and bring it to the point of completion, but pushing that final button…I can’t. Take washing clothes for example…I can wash them, dry them, even iron and fold them but can I put them back on the shelf or hang them in the wardrobe? Nope! I’m responsible for producing a rota for the centre I work in…I am happy to find the dates, assign people to each date, even assign key passages or focus ideas. Can I send the rota out to people? Nah ah!! It sits in my draft messages for weeks until I have to redo it! 

I wish there was a nice neat name for my lack of ability to complete tasks other than ā€˜executive dysfunction around task completion’. I prefer to say I get stuck somewhere between finished and done. My tasks are finished…I’ve completed them, I just haven’t released them into the world (or the wardrobe). 

The astute among you may notice there hasn’t been a blog post for a wee while…Ok, 18 months nearly! I have to accept all responsibility for that, sorry. Please forgive the hiatus. We have been very active, Embers has been up to lots of stuff over the last 18 months, I have a whole file of blog posts that are finished but not done. So over the next few months there will be a mix of posts released…some will be reflections, some will be updates about work we have done, some will be simple resource recommendations.

Going back to the Pathological Demand Avoidance and me getting stuck between finished and done, I wonder if we can all be like that with our discipleship sometimes? Maybe you have been challenged to do something but because it was put to you as a demand you have instinctively gone ā€œNope, can’t do thatā€ but actually if you put it into your daily routine it is more manageable. Or maybe you are happy to pray for someone, seek God for them and even find scripture relevant for them but you then struggle to actually tell them because it exposes you? Is there a way you can break the cycle this week? I’m writing a blog post and publishing it on the same day…what are you going to do?